DR. SUKHVINDER SINGH DEORA
7 principles to the "never say die" approach
In today's blog, we shall point out some of the things one can do to become a popular and friendlier person to all.
👉Never say die approach
It is an approach towards life of making untiring efforts towards your goal. It happens that sometimes we may feel that our goal is far away and almost unreachable. But these particular moments are crucial. The one who quits at this stage, shall never win, never achieve and possibly will never cultivate the ability to put self-belief on himself again. It is this crucial moment one has to think with emotional balance and stop worrying of the situation. Let us go through the 7 principles of never say die approach.
7 simple principles are as follows:
1. Analyze the situation.
In order to develop a never say die approach, you have to think in numbers. You have to find the possibilities of overcoming the situation. You need to talk to yourself that if you come out of this situation with success, what will be the life thereafter. And try to charge yourself with energy to again put some more efforts to achieve, overcome the problem.
2. Try not to think about complaining, problems, think about solutions.
You have to see the other side of the coin. See the possibilities rather than the problems, see the opportunities than the threats. This will make you feel that there is still some room for improvement, putting some more effort into the job and come out as an achiever.
3. Live life in a day.
In order to cultivate never say die approach, you have to think each day as the last day of your life. You have to complete as many tasks in a day as you would like to do if you know that this is the last day of your life. Yes, you shall be doing most of the tasks with a maximum of your enthusiasm and speed. With time, you will develop a habit of doing tasks at such a speed that no one other, who believes to have much time would ever be able to do.
4. Ask yourself some questions.
Ask yourself... what if I am not able to do it? Is it the worst that could happen to you. No, definitely no. So, accumulate your energy to again stand and deliver, deliver your best ever. Definitely, there will be newer heights achieved that day. Remind yourself of abundance of energy and skill you possess to achieve than to quit the goal.
5. Use law of averages.
Use the simple logic of the average number of cases of coming out of any difficult situation. If many people have done it in the past, definitely more than 50% chances are that you would also come out of it. So, just try to disguise the things to your brain by looking at the positive aspects of the law of averages to outlaw the problems.
6. Refuse to give time to worries.
To develop never say die approach, you have to fill your mind with belief, courage and hope and refrain from devoting time to worries. This will help you to create positivism, health and belief that you can come out of any situation. This approach will help you to keep calm while performing, without worrying about the outcomes.
7. Learn the lesson, even if you lose.
It is important that "You lose, but never lose the lesson you learned, when you lose. This is because you will not lose again on a similar situation, if life repeated again, at least.
Lastly, everyone sees his hero in movies and is always eager to that he comes out of every difficult situation, he knows all, he believes in himself. But that was just a fiction, a move. In real life, you are a hero, hero of your own movie. See a "hero" in yourself also. Believe in yourself, believe that you can also come out of every difficult situation, you also know all, you are also strong enough. Believe that you are "A HERO" with never say die approach in life.
7 simple principles are as follows:
1. Analyze the situation.
In order to develop a never say die approach, you have to think in numbers. You have to find the possibilities of overcoming the situation. You need to talk to yourself that if you come out of this situation with success, what will be the life thereafter. And try to charge yourself with energy to again put some more efforts to achieve, overcome the problem.
2. Try not to think about complaining, problems, think about solutions.
You have to see the other side of the coin. See the possibilities rather than the problems, see the opportunities than the threats. This will make you feel that there is still some room for improvement, putting some more effort into the job and come out as an achiever.
3. Live life in a day.
In order to cultivate never say die approach, you have to think each day as the last day of your life. You have to complete as many tasks in a day as you would like to do if you know that this is the last day of your life. Yes, you shall be doing most of the tasks with a maximum of your enthusiasm and speed. With time, you will develop a habit of doing tasks at such a speed that no one other, who believes to have much time would ever be able to do.
4. Ask yourself some questions.
Ask yourself... what if I am not able to do it? Is it the worst that could happen to you. No, definitely no. So, accumulate your energy to again stand and deliver, deliver your best ever. Definitely, there will be newer heights achieved that day. Remind yourself of abundance of energy and skill you possess to achieve than to quit the goal.
5. Use law of averages.
Use the simple logic of the average number of cases of coming out of any difficult situation. If many people have done it in the past, definitely more than 50% chances are that you would also come out of it. So, just try to disguise the things to your brain by looking at the positive aspects of the law of averages to outlaw the problems.
6. Refuse to give time to worries.
To develop never say die approach, you have to fill your mind with belief, courage and hope and refrain from devoting time to worries. This will help you to create positivism, health and belief that you can come out of any situation. This approach will help you to keep calm while performing, without worrying about the outcomes.
7. Learn the lesson, even if you lose.
It is important that "You lose, but never lose the lesson you learned, when you lose. This is because you will not lose again on a similar situation, if life repeated again, at least.
Lastly, everyone sees his hero in movies and is always eager to that he comes out of every difficult situation, he knows all, he believes in himself. But that was just a fiction, a move. In real life, you are a hero, hero of your own movie. See a "hero" in yourself also. Believe in yourself, believe that you can also come out of every difficult situation, you also know all, you are also strong enough. Believe that you are "A HERO" with never say die approach in life.
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